I think anger is over rated, people indulge in it too much. Anger which then leads to jealousy, to hate, such a waste of human value. All these are primal feelings and we all feel it at some point, but to indulge in it. I’ve seen and been in good relationships that end because of that. People can’t let go.Also,i can’t let my friends go,jus litat…
Obviously being angry at someone or something depends on the magnitude of which the crime was committed against whom ever and it’s completely up to the individual to decide how to deal with it. But being 20, and having gone through much social drama, I am freaking jaded. All I have to say to people who pick on other peoples faults or just find some absurd reason to act like a child or throw a tantrum is to grow the f*ck up. Seriously, by the time you’re 18, you’re too old for that shit.
To revolve all conversations on what this girl did, or how that guy did that or some nonsense like that, and thrive on making others feel guilty when it’s no fault of theirs (basically bullying) or to assume that the world revolves around you, trying to prove that your always right, being proud of the fact that certain physical attributes gets you different kind treatment, think about it. Are people (you) really that shallow? Is it worth your time to hold grudges and create enemies? Besides the fact, of course, that the world has bigger problems.
Why can’t people keep opinions to themselves, especially when it doesn’t matter and in situations that don’t matter.
In the 20 years that I have lived, I have met people who seem to have this urge to say everything and make assumptions or read into things way too deep just too create drama and blow everything out of proportion. WTF?
Isn’t there anything else one can do with their time that is more important than to create friction?? Always remember when you’re ever ready to bitch about someone or something, just take a second to think “Why the hell are you so pissed off in the first place?’’ and if you actually have a reason to be pissed off, how are you going to deal with it? Like a child or a grown up?
Like a coward or with some guts to confront the person, politely I might add? Because 2 months from now the problem would have blown over but you’ll still have awkward moments where you walk past a “former” friend and can’t say hello because “You’re no longer on good terms” for what reason?
Who the hell even knows anymore..??
Anyways, moral of the story is, don’t be self absorbed people. Just don’t, nothing good could possibly come out of it. Practice a little compromise, good faith, sincerity and humility. Good things could actually happen, believe it or not.
